Couples &Family Counseling

Marriage Enrichment

Strong marriages don’t happen by accident—especially under pressure. Many men feel the distance growing, but don’t know how to slow things down without making it worse. Marriage enrichment counseling creates a space to rebuild connections, improve communication, and address patterns before resentment takes hold, so your marriage becomes a source of strength rather than strain.

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Affair Recovery

When trust is broken, everything feels unstable—for you, your spouse, and your family. Whether you’re the one who crossed a line or the one trying to make sense of what happened, affair recovery counseling focuses on honesty, accountability, and repair. This work isn’t about quick fixes—it’s about doing the hard, necessary work to rebuild trust and decide what comes next.

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Family Counseling

High-demand roles don’t just affect you—they shape the emotional climate of your entire home. Family counseling helps address patterns of stress, disconnection, and miscommunication that impact your spouse and children. Together, we work to strengthen relationships, clarify roles, and create a healthier family system where everyone can feel safer, seen, and supported.

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    "I whole-heartedly recommend Matt Lee as a therapist. I've witnessed his empathy, clinical knowledge, and personal resilience. I've watched him guide others through hardship, serving as a catalyst for lasting change. Matt is a true asset to his field."

    Beau Norman
    Lead Pastor, The Hill Church

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    "I have known and worked with Matt Lee for well over a decade. He has an unusual combination of wisdom, compassion and candor that will serve him well in his chosen profession. His impact on clients will be positive and lasting."

    Roy Rotz
    Ph.D., LCMFT, LCPC

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    "Matthew is a highly experienced and skilled counselor. During interactions with Matthew, his caring, inviting presence has made me feel understood and cared for. I won't hesitate to refer to Matthew!"

    Isaac Bonk, MA, LPC

Couples who tend to be a good fit

  • Couples recovering from betrayal, secrecy, or relational breaches

  • Marriages impacted by chronic stress, burnout, or leadership pressure

  • Couples ready to move beyond surface conflict toward deeper repair and connection

  • High-functioning couples who want proactive strengthening, not just crisis intervention

  • Couples who are navigating seasons of transition, such as relocation, career shifts, and new parenting stages.

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About the Therapist

Hello, my name is Matt Lee and I’m here to help.

I’m a licensed counselor in Kansas with over 20 years of experience walking with people through pressure, leadership, and relational strain—as a pastor, higher education professional, and now a clinician. I specialize in working with couples—particularly when one or both partners carry significant responsibility in their work or leadership—and that pressure begins to impact connection at home.

Many of the couples I work with love each other deeply but feel stuck in patterns of miscommunication, emotional distance, or recurring conflict. Stress, burnout, unresolved wounds, or betrayal can quietly erode the sense of safety and partnership you once felt. My role is to help you slow the cycle down, understand what’s happening beneath the surface, and begin restoring trust, clarity, and connection.

Whether you’re seeking marriage enrichment, navigating affair recovery, or trying to repair the strain of chronic stress on your relationship, counseling provides a steady and structured space to do this work with care. I take a client-centered, integrated approach—listening closely to both of your stories and collaborating on what meaningful change would look like. We begin by stabilizing what feels overwhelming, then address the deeper patterns driving disconnection, and finally focus on rebuilding with practical rhythms that strengthen your marriage long term.

If you’re ready to take a thoughtful step forward, I offer a free 15-minute consultation to help us determine if we’re a good fit. I’d be glad to connect and explore how counseling might support your relationship.

Matthew W. Lee

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